The Last Handshake

The conversation before the decision.

The moments just before something changes.

The Last Handshake is where I explore the moments just before something changes.

The conversations.

The decisions.

The people.

The judgement.

The trust.

The things we see only afterwards.

It is my way of thinking out loud about what I've learnt — and what I'm still learning.

Lessons I'm Still Learning.

What We Explore

Different situations. The same human themes.

Real stories about what happens between people, decisions and change.

The Deal

Sales, negotiation, trust, mistakes, buying behaviour.

The Room

CXO conversations, leadership, politics, communication, influence.

The Exit

Career changes, resignations, reinvention, the moment before leaving.

The Pivot

Founders, consultants, businesses changing direction.

The Human

Confidence, ego, fear, ambition, regret, judgement at work.

The Lesson

Accumulated experience distilled into memorable rules.

How Each Story Works

A simple structure. A deeper conversation.

Every story follows the same journey — from what happened to what it taught me.

01

The Hook

What happened?

02

The Room

Who was there and what was at stake?

03

The Assumption

What did I/we believe?

04

The Moment

What changed?

05

The Lesson

What did I learn?

06

The Other Side

What might the other person have been thinking?

07

The Handshake

What should I have done differently?

08

The Viewer

Where might you be making the same mistake?

“And that's the thing about the last handshake. You usually don't know it's the last one until it's already happened.”
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